One of the most cherished relationships besides the ones tied by blood is friendship. A true and close friend could mean more than even a family member sometimes. A best friend is one of the most important things in everyone’s life, as they are the ones with whom you will share all your happiness, sorrows, and personal secrets too. In fact, the one family relationship you get to choose yourself is friendship and hence, that is really close to your heart.
And the men who say male friendships are the most special clearly haven’t been very good friends with a girl. It may be difficult to understand the fairer sex, but believe me, being friends with them is one-of-a-kind experience! Female friends are so weird and brilliant. Not just a perfect wing woman for you but also your complete guide in every situation. If you have a girl best friend, you can talk to her about all your problems and she will suggest to you what to do and how to handle it.
Here are a few reasons why every guy must have a girl best friend in their life:
- She won’t get jealous.
If you have a female best friend, you don’t have to worry about liking another woman’s Instagram photo or having a female friend like yours.
If anything, they are rooting for you, and hoping that attractive woman likes and/or comments on your pictures.
- She’ll show you the right path.
A female friend will always support you in working toward personal improvement. Want to get an honest opinion or true feedback? Just turn to her and trust her that she will be honest with you.
When you want to express yourself, but you are in an emotional block, she will break it and help you get more sensitive. When you feel like you are getting ahead of yourself and losing your path, she will get you right back and let you realize what you need in your life.
- She will teach you to see a woman’s perspective.
Sometimes, when you need to talk to your mum, sister or girlfriend about something intense and are looking for advice on how to do so, your bros may not be able to see a woman’s perspective properly. The best person’s advice you need to seek then is your girl best friend.
She’ll tell you exactly what to say and how to say it, keeping the other person’s emotions in mind.
- You don’t have to hide your guilty pleasures around her.
Whatever weird or silly thing that helps you pass time or cheers you up, you know you can always be yourself around her. There’s no judgment in platonic relationships.
She won’t judge you or your choices in literally anything, other than just teasing you every now and then.
- She’ll give you the best relationship advice.
Having a girl best friend is necessary when you are in a relationship. So, you can have the knowledge of all the moves that you need to make in your relationship.
They give you handy advice on how to respond to a text, where you should go on your first outing, and what to buy and how to surprise them for their birthday. She knows exactly what advice to give you.
- She will show you the mirror.
She won’t sugarcoat things for you. If something is wrong, she’ll call it right out. She won’t be ruthless, but she will tell you the truth in the best way possible.
If you really want an honest opinion or true feedback, you can turn to her and trust she will be honest with you.
- She actually cares and listens to you.
Let’s face it: Guys are selfish and aren’t very good listeners. Having a female best friend means she’ll be there to comfort you when you get rejected or are just down. Sure, male best friends will try to make you feel better by distracting you with hours of Xbox, but a female best friend will actually listen to how you’re feeling without judgement.
Doesn’t matter how long you keep on chattering; she will listen to everything you have to say quietly with great enthusiasm. Having a girl best friend means you can talk with her about many topics and have hour-long conversations.
- She’s always by your side.
Female best friends are always honest and stand by your side whatever happens. A girl bestie is the one who wipes your tears, gives their shoulder to cry on, listens to your all problems, and finds ways to cheer you up. She will always be there in your life when you break up with a loved one or suffer losses in business.
She makes you happy even when you think you will never smile again. She may criticize you when you go on the wrong path but will help you become an improved person as well.